Why Do Black Men Like White Women?
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You just read the title and figured you were going to come here and stumble upon the Holy Grail. Some people might think this is truly informative whereas some others might think it’s pure bishop (bishop aka not true fuss aka B.S.). Before I proceed, I must provide a public service announcement: don’t shoot the messenger. You might not like what I have to say, but the reality in which I (important that you understand that these opinions are based on my entourage’s experiences) live in has led me to these conclusions. So why do black men like Caucasian women?
Before I answer the question, I want to make sure that you fellow readers understand who I am and what my surroundings involved. I grew up in Haiti and then moved to Montreal, Canada at the age of 12. I lived in a suburban area that was about 25 minutes south of downtown Montreal. I went to a private school where blacks were a minority. Whenever I entertained a conversation with a black girl; for the most part the conversations all went the same way: they would make fun of me for my attire (let’s be real, I came from a third world country, I wasn’t exactly up to par fashion wise), talk loud for everyone to hear, be defensive, argumentative and extremely annoying. On the other hand, whenever I would talk to Caucasian girls, they were curious about my background, my accent, the things I had seen in Haiti and what not. Mind you, this all happened when I was 12, so the impacts on my life overall should have been minimal right?
Wrong. As I grew older and matured, I always had the image of the overly aggressive black woman in the back of my mind. Consequently, whenever I would entertain conversations with black women (remember, they are a minority the same way black men are a minority) and they would become loud and start to tease me just for fun, I would instantly shy away. However, if a Caucasian woman offered the same type of attitude, I was completely fine with it. And remember, there are far more Caucasian women in Montreal then there are black women. Therefore, I was evidently more exposed to blondes, brunettes and redheads them I was to a good old fashion black woman. Some of my friends went to all boys schools and had also heard that the black ladies had quite a bit of attitude; hence they shied away as well.
Invariably, if the black men kept their guard up whenever there were around black women, they completely dropped it whenever Caucasian women were around. And let’s be real, when men and women being to interact and that there is a mutual interest, well they start to see each other casually. People think that men perceive Caucasian women to be easy. Such is not the case; it’s more along the lines that we perceive them to in general be more easy going. Is the assessment fair? Of course not; especially when you realize that for most men, the perception comes from past adolescent experiences. But then again, if you’re a baseball player that’s passed the age of 30 and you’re having a career year, the assumption is that you’re on steroids. Certain labels you just cannot seem to shake, at times they stay with you forever.
My explanation might seem overly simplistic and some feel that I am using it as a cop out, but it’s actually as simple as that for a lot of men. That being said, it’s important that men out there understand that a woman’s race does not determine whether she will be forthcoming or not. Instead, take the time to see what she has to offer instead of profiling her. Hopefully those of you that read this might actually see yourselves in this and take the necessary steps to avoid falling into the perception/assumption game.
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I would like to hear your explanation on why a white guy(me) married a haitian women...either way good topic, found it to be intriguing.
Interrelations are intruiging subject but i think it is ok! I always thought that white men look for black women because they are hot and sizzling... Nice hub pal.
Thanks for the love Sham :o). I guess maybe to answer your question Rich, I might have to post write another hub for that one.
Very interesting...not what I expected, I have to say. I posted your link on my page and I've created my own hubpage. What have we started Shyne? :)
I guess we started a revolution of writing!
Nice information there Shyne, maybe it is really greener on the other side...
What about hispanics homie?
Funny you mentioned hispanics, because women generally love hispanics. They love the accent and smoothness. I might take a stab at them next time. Mind you, one of my boys told me to write about why white women like black men.
As a reply to Shyne post...
I, White woman, like black man cuz in general they tend to be more "relax" in life in general. Might be a cultural thing. And i also gotta admit they all got a hell of a ass following em all the time. :P
"However, if a Caucasian woman offered the same type of attitude, I was completely fine with it. " Why the double standerd Shyne? Im a black woman and have plenty of easy going, educated and delightful black woman as friends, including myself. On the other hand I've met defensive, negative and arrogant women from all nationalities and most of them (contrary to popular belief) were Caucasians in various enviornments. I would like to see you explain away my experience w/rude women in general especially white ones. Or will you just try to continue justify your preference? I personally love everyone in judge people/women by the content of their character and NOT the Color of their skin. Im not against interracial dating, you like who you like. Just dont go disrespecting a race of woman because of your preference based on a handful of experiences.
Which is exactly what I said in the last paragraph tru4life: "My explanation might seem overly simplistic and some feel that I am using it as a cop out, but it’s actually as simple as that for a lot of men. That being said, it’s important that men out there understand that a woman’s race does not determine whether she will be forthcoming or not. Instead, take the time to see what she has to offer instead of profiling her. Hopefully those of you that read this might actually see yourselves in this and take the necessary steps to avoid falling into the perception/assumption game".
Just because my lack of experience at the time once made me ignorant, does not mean that I still am.I do not judge based on race, color or creed; I have dated women with various backgrounds. The mere point I was trying to illustrate (which was lost on several people by the way) was the origin of the apprehension that some black men may have towards black women. My goal was not to justify, rather inform. If you disagree,that's fine and I respect your opinion.
I enjoyed reading your hub and truly I understand your point of view. I am black woman and not all black women are not hostile or profiling. It's the same with white women. There are some that don't always judge a book by it's cover. People are people and people should be with who ever they feel like being with regardless. I could go on with this but overall it was a very interesting hub.
Thanks for taking the time to read and comment dl53acy. I totally agree with oyu, not all black women are hostile, but sadly that was the impression I had when I was younger. I just thought that my experience might help some people understand the thought process of some black males.
Very interesting hub. Hailing from Houston, TX I know quite a lot about culture and would tend to agree with you, although that is not entirely the case down here in the South.
I feel what you're saying. Thanks for reading and leaving a comment mistywild.
Men are attracted to women who appeal to them; appealing in mind, body and spirit. That is the most basic force of attraction between the sexes - not the races.
I think you have hit on something real here. I enjoyed reading your article. Your information is solid and well written. Thanks!
Thanks for stopping by James
I think there is a tremendous amount of confusion and misinformation in the picture you have developed of Black Women. The character traits which you find unappealing are the traits that to me make them the most fascinating creatures on earth. Black women are built the way they are for reasons that can mostly be traced back to the black male.
As you stated in your post,
"However, if a Caucasian woman offered the same type of attitude, I was completely fine with it."
This would imply that the issues you have with black women have little to do with the action itself and more to do with your personal preference. This is fine and should be encouraged but to attempt to use stereotypical characteristics as the basis for your choices, I think is somewhat unfair.
I always thought skin colour wasn't really important that we as individuals would have to elaborate on why we date other people from other races.
I thought maybe we date people because of their personalities and common-interests. I guess I was wrong, I guess we're still being biased and making decisions on dating by someone's race and making a stereo-type of how they treat others and then stating the personality follows with a certain race.
Thanks for commenting SOBF. Keep in mind, I was merely giving my perspective as a teenager. My opinion has since changed; but that's how things seemed to me at the time. Oddly enough, several black men from the area where I live in share the same feelings. I won't pretend to have a universal answer for it all because that would be a lie, however certain experiences have a lasting impression; and the ones I had did just that.
Manda Rose - I have to agree with you 100%.
ShyneIV - I will agree with you on one point since agreement brings understanding. We are blessed with the ability to carry our life experiences with us throughout life. It tends paint our vision and direct our passions and that is completely understandable.
ShyneIV - Interesting hub. Thanks for sharing your point of view.
As a single, Caucasion woman I must tell you that I have received a good number of inquiries from black men on the dating websites in which my profile resides so your assessment of black men interested in Caucasion women seems to be fairly accurate.
Thanks again for sharing.
ShyneIV, I have had the same experiences with thug like men. I remember this thug asked me for my number, and when he heard me speak, he was like I talk like a white girl. Where I'm at, ghetto attitudes on a black woman is ideal for the men in my community; that attitude is what they are attracted to. I see black men dating white women who mimick the ghetto character of the black women. I think black me date white women because the media says that their skin color and hair texture is the definition of beauty. Black men constantly lie about why they date outside the race in order to not be seen as a sell out. you said a white woman with the same attitude would be ok for you. I know why, because she is white. I remeber when I was little, I dreamed of marrying a white man. When I watched my cartoons, white men where the gentlemen. When I watched the sitcomes and movies and t.v. commericals, the white men where always the hero's, the smart ones, the attractive one's, the successful one's. The media does a good job selling to us the messages they want us to believe
Thanks fpr your answer Tzaddik.
Real insightful; a lot of our thoughts and ideologies at times come from how things are portrayed in the media. I think of the movie Malcolm X, in which white is depicted as being good and almighty in the dictionnary but black is meant to be evil, disgraceful and dirty. Great point, Thanks!
Even though black women are hard with black men and white woen tend to like black men, eventually black men will have to stick with black women only in the future. Because every race love white women and they are becoming more rare because of low birth rate.Italians love blonde American, Saudis love them,Indians are mad crazy for white women, Chinese.So much competition.
But in the other hand Chinese/Asian women prefer white men or their own.Mexican and Latinos do the same. Not many Mexican women or men like to date Africans.
Talking about Tiger wood.I think he deserve his privacy and nobody will ever know the real reason of that suicidal/accident tentative.Many rich men realize that being billionaire doesn't guarantee happiness and a faithful wife.I hope this is not the reason why he tried to suicide himself.I know that many wealthy men would want to end their life,knowing their wife will not only live them for another men,but also take with her half of the billion with house and children.Same sad thing happen to Hulk hoggen,and others. 2009 is a very sad year for black role model.Lets just say,that the price of gold in wall street is pretty high and it pay to be a gold digger.
I'm always tremendously offended when the stereotype of black women trumps the reality of the black woman. My mother is a black woman, my sister is a black woman, my grandmother is a black woman, I have a multitude of cousins who are black women. Professional, intelligent, beautiful, sexy. What is it about white people and black people people for that matter that makes them think it's ok to post the stereotype of black women when the multitude of black women are not like that? Do you people not see the incredible racists attitudes that you perpetrate? Simple question what about the vast majority of black women, millions upon millions who are not "loud, abrasive and otherwise hard to deal with." Yes all stereotypes contain some truth. When you apply that stereotype to most black women anectodatally or otherwise then it's plain and simply racism and you need to stop it. No matter how simplistic you seem to think you're making this issue. Millions of black women are tremendously offended and are marginilized by the stereotype in their everyday lives. Stop it. Just friggin stop.
Terced, although I get your point, you completely missed mine. What I was trying to convey was what my opinion was as a teenager and what formed that opinion. You do not have to agree with me, but all I ask is that you understand my point of view. I have since changed my stance on the whole thing; however my point was to merely illustrate to people how those stereotypes are formed and why they have a lasting image for several black men.Much love.
I'm a black man Shyne. I think the more you put that kind of garbage out there. The more it gets repeated to the point where the stereotype becomes "the truth"...I know you get my point; so you also understand that you have now perpetuated the belief through your supposed "expose" on why black men view black women this way. Giving the racists pricks ammunition; "hey shyne says that's how black women are and he's black too." "hey if black people say that about one another then I must be right." Just stop it. If you want to post truth how about posting a hub specifically attacking the egregious stereotype of black women. The sisters could use a fresh voice form a black man. Peace.
Terced, I do no claim to give an expose or to provide the almighty truth; what I claim to provide though is my take on it and why I had an issue at a young age with it. If all you choose to see from what I wrote is that it's garbage and that I am perpetuating the belief, that's your opinion and I completely disagree with it but I nonetheless respect it. I feel as though people can actually learn from what I wrote and that first impressions do not define an individual nor a race. That's the message that I felt was most important. Nevertheless, I challenge you (respectfully of course) to write a hub attacking the stereotypes associated with black women that you speak of. If you put the thought in it and prove to me that I was wrong in osting this current hub, I will gladly delete it. Sometimes people talk, others hear but no one ever listens; I pride myself on listening to constructive criticiscm which you have provided me with. Will you accept?
Hmmmmm. I listen, I hear, I critically analyze then I respond. I understood your point Shyne. I understand that this is "your take." I saw that you wrote "don't shoot the messenger." Again the preponderance of the "black women are like this" stereotypes regardless of the intent add to the erroneous beliefs about them.
The thing is you seem intelligent enough to know that simpler minds abound. Surely you could've anticipated what an intelligent black person might say or at least know how they might view yet another post that in some way degrades black women. The spirit of what you posted is very clear to me, the reality of what it portends however is what I'm addressing. Your disagreement is duly noted.
As for your challenge no thanks. I've heard enough and be sure my mind is already spinning with regard to that very topic.
Stay tuned.
Power to the People. Peace.
Because white women can be easier to deal with. Black women have the tendency to become too hostile and unfriendly sometimes. Other times they get angered very easily and sometimes it is difficult to try to get close to one. One thing I never understood about black women is that when a sista gets hurt by a brotha rather than hold that one brotha accountable for his action they lump everyone of us in one group instead and blame ALL of us based on that one brotha's mistake. Why is that? NOt all of them are like that but a great deal of them are.
Deonte I don't know how old you are but I know plenty of people of various races who are embittered toward people of the opposite gender for wrongs received at their hands. How is it a "black woman" thing? You're an idiot. People who are jaded and cynical about the other gender are common to all races. How is it you were able to simultaneously only associate this prejudice with black women? How is it that you can quote such an erroneous stereotype and apply it singly to black women? You're an idiot...oh did I say that already? Yeah well it bears repeating. You're an idiot. If you're black you're a black idiot and I am embarrassed that you are a member of my race. So Deonte I guess that means your mom, grandmother and sister are hard to deal with huh? Yeah they probably are because they raised a son who is prejudiced against his own mother, grandmother and sister(s).
WOW aren't you an emotional wreck? Funny how you cant even disagree w/ someone w/ childish insults. Why dont you try thinking about what I posted instead of getting your panties in a bunch? I could care less about what you are ashamed of. Learn how to type with your brain instead of you're emotions you scumbag. lol
(I apologize in advance half of this sounds intelligent the other half is a rant, plz read one sentence at a time slowly)
As black people we complain when people are prejudice against us, how do you expect respect from others races when you cant respect your own? I don’t blame you for your views but I encourage you to educate yourself on “colour complexes” and really take some time to reflect on your race, maybe the women in your FAMILY are loud, and make fun of you but that’s unfortunate. And notice I said FAMILY if you are sitting there saying “no my family is pretty normal” then you have just contradicted yourself. Don’t make excuses for dating other races, just be a man and say “I like what I like“, but don’t knock black women while your at it (Black women are not mad because your dating white women we are mad because you are attacking our character). TRUTH! Cause ask your self this if black women are loud(stereotype), rude(stereotype), what about the stereotypes of a black male (criminal, lazy, cheater, uneducated) I‘m a black female and I have defiantly come across many black males who fit the stereotypes, to name a few are those true about you? If yes, why complain about loudness?, if not then you are doing to the black females, what I have just characterized you as. And by the way I’m Born in Montreal and Ottawa half Haitian, So don’t disrespect me my family who go work their ass off are stand up, well educated citizens with your ignorant point of view. Sorry thing aint working out for you. Stop saying all this cliché shit I see on the internet everyday to sound impressive, go read, watch a movie learn about your culture, learn about slavery, mental slavery, learn about why we have ghettos full of black people, learn about why we have soo many broken marriages, single mothers ,colour complexes, learn why a dark skinned black man would only date a lighter skinned women(when he himself is dark), If you read enough on these subjects you might realize the true reason you prefer white women (watch Malcolm X). I hear more of this stuff from black men than anyone else. Black men need to step it up start being fathers, “womanizers”, and hustlers and we have statistics to prove that black men lead in those areas, what statistic says black women are loudest? Latina women are loud (how do I know Cuban side of me) but black men NEVER talk shit about them, my white friends from MTL and Ottawa loud as well, dance the same, actually if dance even more scandalous if you’ve been to a reggae party you’ll know what im talking about . Black men need to step it up and stop blaming everyone for their failures (white men, black women, society). “Getthefuckouttaherewitdatbullshit”. Black women put up with too much of this shit we are too loyal to our black men. That girl making fun of you didn’t change your life just say you like white women , there is nothing wrong with that, Shout out to all the fly white girls, just don’t be phoney about it. Do you think white girls go around saying , when I was 12 a white guy made fun of me so I only date black men. NO!!!!!!!!! they just say “I love black men”. You probably like them because that’s all that’s around you, as you said the majority of people around you were white, so maybe you learn to identify with white people more. I have more to say but this is too long as is ----I should write a book on this-
to TRUTH READ ME I DARE YOU,
You make excellent points except for two things:
1. I mentioned that this hub reflects my adolescent views, not my adult ones
2. I'n involved in a relationship with a black woman, not a white one.
So no I'm not knocking black women, I'm simply stating how I got to where I am today. Quick FYI, you don't know me or know what I have learned or what my level of education is. Telling me to go read a book or watch Malcolm X is actually your way of stereotyping me as the black men you listed in your comment. Funny how things come full circle huh?
My opinions and life experiences are just that, mine. You might not agree with them, but that's your prerogative. Calling me ignorant based on my teenage life experience is jumping the gun considering you have no idea how I am or who I am today. Keep in mind, a large amount of black teenage kids have gone though exactly what I have; does that make them ignorant? No. It means that their environment helped dictate their life views to some extent. I'm not some uneducated individual just posting things on the internet as banter (or I would like to think not, but apparently that's up for debate); my purpose was merely to inform people where the stereotype stems from. At no point do I make any excuses or say that's it's right. If presenting a list of facts and then detailing my reactions to them is ignorant; well then guilty as charged.
By the way, feel free to reply (whereas you thought it was long, I thought it was a good read), I actually recommend for people to engage in a healthy debate.
MY DAUGHTER IS GOING WITH A HAITIAN AND SHE DISGRACED MY FAMILY AND NOW I DISOWNED HER FOR THAT. SHE LOST ALOT OF MY RESPECT AND MONEY IN MY FAMILY. SHE WILL FALL DOWN AND SHE ALSO QUIT SCHOOL AT 16 AND WHEN SHE BECAME 18 ON DECEMBER 18 LAST YEAR SHE RAN AWAY OUT OF MY HOUSE WHEN I WAS SLEEPING. MY FAMILY SPOILED HER AND GAVE HER TOO MUCH MONEY NOW SHE HAS NOTHING AND WILL MAKE NOTHING.
I enjoyed this hub. Not sure why so many people have gotten so bent out of shape about what you wrote...I enjoyed it.
meating misspelled, i meant Meeting.
Would hate to eff up the king's pig language.
By the way! What is with all this INBREEDING. There are over 6 Billion people on the planet earth. Why in the hell would you like to date or marry someone who looks like you, talks like you and shares your same culture? Is that not narcissism and insanity rolled into one?
I thought humans were above the farm animals that stick to their own kind. When will society progress collectively? People still believe in Egyptian Sun Gods and other Middle Eastern Mythology and they still believe in INBREEDING.
Marrying someone just because of their race or color is ignorant, especially if you are so narrow minded that you stick to your own kind, not because you love the person's character but because they resemble the 10,000 other people in your immediate racial commune.
Maybe I am wrong but I see this obsession with preserving the white race or black race as backward, animalistic thinking in a diverse and multi ethnic world.
Mankind will advance when we adopt love as a religion and logic as our compass.
Lets stop being in denial. Stereotypes exist. I dont understand why gorgeous , smart Black women complain when they see a brown/black man with a white woman. Instead of bitching about it, find someone you love regardless of race and live your life.
You must understand that for every Black Queen theres a good number of Shenene's out there bumping into me with their shopping carts and then rolling their eyes or otherwise trying to instigate a fight with a black man.
The same goes for white women, for every thick luscious white girl out there, theres always gonna be a skinny celeb wannabe skank whose vagina probably reeks and appears to be a Catchers mitt after letting Phi Beta Krrrrapa run through their internal organs in a train.
For every educated, regal, Puerto Rican princess, there will always be a chickenheaded, non spanish speaking, Maury lovin', Black hating racist, jerry curl juice lovin', GED havin', multiple baby daddy loving, big hoop earring, 1, A, 4,5,6 Train in NYC riding, loud, Ghetto magnificent ignoramus named Julissa, Marissa, Issa, Belissa, or Chuchifrito-Issa.
The most intelligent, college educated, loving woman I ever met is a Puerto Rican woman. However, she does not exist in a vacuum.
The most intelligent, beautiful, Strong women I have seen are Tisha Campbell, and Edith Brown. However, they dont exist in a vacuum.
For every luscious, thick Allison Sweeney, there are a million other white gold digging tramps trying to get at Tiger Woods and his money. (His wife included, do you think this Swedish lady would have married Tiger if he worked at a foot locker?)
For every Sojourner Truth, Harriet Tubman, Harriet Winslow (!), Tisha Campbell, there is a Shenene', loud mouth Crystal or Sheriri.
For those with little reading comprehension skills, THERE ARE AWESOME BLACK WOMEN AND HORRIBLE BLACK WOMEN.
THERE ARE AWESOME WHITE WOMEN AND WHITE WOMEN WHO ARE SPERM RECEPTACLES AND USELESS CARCASSES.
THERE ARE GREAT PUERTO RICAN AND HISPANIC WOMEN, AND THEN THERE ARE YOUR TYPICAL STEREOTYPES.
Dont assume, imagine or delude yourself into thinking these are not facts. There are good and bad in every race.
To diss Shyne as to why he let a bad woman from his race affect his tastes is illogical. He is simply expressing a feeling on an event and his interpretation. He also admits that his mode of thinking WAS WRONG.
This is why we should have vouchers for Private Schooling so that Reading, Writing and Reading Comprehension are explained and elaborated.
Done Ranting...
Bless all of you and lets work to make this a better place. If only we could put the spics, niggers and crackers in circus acts and point and laugh at them....
Very well said "Oh.Wow", thanks for stopping by and giving your 2 cents.
It's funny how you ended justifying yourself, Shyne, by saying that you're currently in a relationship with a black woman. I think that you should have started your post with a big warning in bold prints like: THIS IS THE THOUGHTS OF A TEENAGER, THIS IS NOT ME ANYMORE;-)
I am a proud African woman and even if I don't have kids yet, I'm hellbent on making sure that my boys will never question, even in their adolescence, the fact that black women are their rock and not something so threatening that it's worth dating out of race. If they decide to date out of race, I'd like them to do it for reasons other than "I am looking for this and that when it comes to certain human traits or values, and black women don't have it". If one of my son ever tells me something like that or liking long, silky hair, I will disown him right away.
I grew up in Africa in a country where white and biracial people tended to mingle with each other. We all learn at school how strong black women and men worked together to fight against colonialism. I was raised and told that a good man would always go the extra mile to pursue a woman he loved and our men knew that it was valiant to do such things. I learnt at school that in certain cultures and villages, there were rites where men undergo ordeals to prove they're worth the woman they want. On the other side, mothers make sure that their daughters also go through some rites in which they learn to endure pain because life is no fun 24/7. Who would like anyway to marry a woman who will fall apart at the first sight of trouble in paradise? Even Lois Lane is no fragile flower and Superman doesn't seem to complain about it.I grew up with this idea of black women having to be strong, assertive, resilient for themselves, their husbands, their families and there was nothing wrong about it. Our men knew it and were looking for that.
Nowadays, I don't know if this is the influence of western medias always whining about independent women castrating men, our men claim that we are mean, too argumentative, too aggressive.
As far as I am concerned, I left Africa when I was 17 and have been living for 15 years outside my home country. I've experienced so many hardships in my life and I am proud of the strong person I've become. I am very well educated, well spoken and know where I am from, proud of my African values and proud of being as strong as all the women of my lineage. My black male friends think that I am too independent and that makes me a white chick so I'd only be happy with a white man. BS!!! As far as I am concerned, the way I see it is if a black man sees me a threat, well either his mom was too submissive to his dad; either he didn't take a good look at his mom and how brave she has been. Black women are brave and it's time that black men get it. I don't care about the loud and brash women; they are not representative of all black women the same way the cheating brothers are not representing of all men. I am hellbent on finding a black man who is gonna understand that this assertiveness of mine is an asset for him and for our couple. No way I am gonna run away or make my man low because he lost his job, because he's having doubts about something or because he's ill. These are things that as a black woman I've already experienced alone and overcome by myself. There was a reason for that: to be a rock for somebody else who is going through the same s**t and if that's someone is my significant other, Alleluia!!! On the other side, I expect a certain strength of character from my man and I want if from a brother because I know his would come from experiences that other men from other "races" didn't have.
My 2 cents
Dear "A Passerby",
not to get off topic, but you touched on something I wrote about a while back about women having standards. Men openly complain about there not having enough good women left; but then when an interesting woman comes with standards; these same men run away. At times, us men do suck LOL.
Back to the topic at hand. Our roots, learnings and experiences dictate who we are as individuals; we cannot run away from that. I know a charming old lady that was afraid of black people because when she moved to the big city, her very first interaction with a person of color led to her being mugged. Can I blame her for her stereotypes considering the way we are portrayed on television? To some extent yes, but I understand her logic. In her case and mine, the problem we had is that we had not yet been exposed to certain things. Back when I lived in Haiti (before 12), I never thought twice about shying away from a black woman; whereas once I moved to Canada, my first interactions kind of scared me away.
Nothing can substitute life experience, and I'm glad I had the ones I've had because they helped me understand the world we live in. Thanks for stopping by :o).
I think black men like white women because they look good and are atttacted to them, after all and dont shoot me for this, who wouldnt want to lay we someone you can not only touch her her but also smells good and are classic beauty and have manners. Not every black girl is pretty, not every white girl is pretty, but lets face it you can touch a white gils hair and they dont look dirty!
Wow Latina,
I'm not one to belittle people, but that statement was filled with racial undertones and also leads me to believe you might have some form of hate against african-americans. Hopefully it's just a phase....
Go ahead shyne...tell Latina how fine she is and how she's right about yo nappy headed black sistas and they dirty hair...come on Shyne u know how black women iz riiight?
Pfffffffff.
Two Times....Pfffffff.
Terced,
completely off topic, why'd you pick Plankton as your display picture?
LOL.....that's funny. You know you're the only one that has actually asked me that question.
Speaking truth to power makes me feel like plankton in a way. I have visions of ruling the world but no matter how powerful the truth I have I still feel small and insignificant.
Perhaps it is just my own perception as opposed to what reality is or could be. For now I'm plankton.
ROFL.......
Don't try to steal the recipe to Krabby Patties though LOL. Not to get corny or speak in cliches, but at times you might feel insignificant and yet mean the world to several. Food for thought....But yeah, I like the plankton pic lol
Man...I have a mental vision of what a Krabby Patty actually tastes like.....LOL....Good Stuff.
I'm well aware of the influence and love that others have for me and feel from me.
For now I'm Plankton but I'm sure something else will strike my muse and you'll see a different profile pic.
Anyway.
Shyne...um..stay as black as you can given the current assimilation and bombardment to your psyche of all things "Eurocentric"....LOL
Peace.
What? What is your obsession with acting a certain color. Reading all your posts, I imagine you to be a girl thats probably cool but needs to let go of anger. What is the obsession with acting a certain color? Eff being Eurocentric, Afrocentric or whatever, we are all human. The first four letters of the word CULTure tell a bigger story. Stop being a clone, give yourself a hug and move on. The irony in life is that when you find love and it happens to be a white guy, are you gonna run away?
Oh Wow...i bet you think you're human.
I have plenty of friends of all races who I love dearly.
Thing is my friends love me and they listen; they also try to understand. They also relate to a great many things I share with them; and yes they have witnessed those things as well.
Oh.Wow...if you'd stop making my race a negative "issue" perhaps I'd stop writing about it...
Oh.wow..oh.wow...i guess this is the part where you tell me to just "shut up" and "everyone has problems"...
Oh.wow what an insensitive culturally sensitive person you are..
Oh.wow you personify an oxymoron..
oh.wow what a profound statement on my part
oh.wow...the krap is getting so deep I gotta get my rain boots and slicker...
oh.wow........!!!
u never answered my question. what does acting Black mean? Remember, you cant spell CULTure without CULT. Since when did I make your race a negatve issue? Why would I tell you to shut up? You sound like a weirdo with issues who also quotes small children's cartoons. Let me take a wild stab in the dark, are you single?
The best part of your failure of a reply was the old: I have friends of other races.
Your inferiority complex seeps through your keyboard. Why do you care about others assimilations if you are so secure in your identity?
It is this insecurity, lack of reading comprehension, anger, lack of focus, ability to debate and overall stupidity that has unfortunately made a large group of people (regardless of race) undateable reminders of the slow process of evolution.
I heard MEDIATAKEOUT needs another angry black broad to post comments. Have fun! Oh, and enjoy watching Sponge Bob or whatever it is you quote, it seems to be more of your mental level. :-)
also, again, if the love of your life turned out to be white, would you run away?
Also, Tiger Woods does not represent ALL INTERRACIAL NEGROES.
#1. A regular black/brown man could have seen that a swedish princess in this white supremacist world would have never married (in my Uncle Ruckus voice) a negro named Eldridge if he worked at a Foot Locker in Alabama or Harlem. Therefore something tells me this lady is just another common, gold digging...
#2. Tiger seems to have been manipulated or just plain stupid to bag all those ugly broads on the road. Remember guys, sometimes JILL is your best friend.
#3. Funny how Asian women arent the ones bitching about who Tiger dates. Maybe some of them (the non eye surgery gettin' kind) actually love themselves and could care less what another man's preference is.
I suggest you take on a graduate study of - "Do black men prefer white women, and why?" And a second chapter - "Do famed and fortuned black men prefer white women, and why?" Simple questions to black men to start the process could include: 1. Are white women generally more physically attractive than black women, 2. Are white women better in a relationship than black women (this could have many parts), and 3. What existing stereotypes seem to be valid (research existing stereotypes or take a census). The word "stereotype" has developed a negative connotation, I believe because those who are given suspicion (if they seemingly fit the mold) to the "given" category take extreme defense to its actually meaning. For example, if there is a stereotype that black women are less likely to share in a relationship or are in general harder to get along with, then you could expect most black women to be very defensive to this stereotype regardless if it is statistically true. Humans have a "group" mentality. We put ourselves in groups where we feel we will get support when we need it, and to defend us and our status in society. These behaviors have much to do with gaining resources needed to provide ourselves and to offspring. Higher status and more resources can be associated with higher chances of viable genetic survivability. From a biological perspective, the purpose of an individual's life is to produce viable offspring - increased relative fitness. Actually, and interestingly, humans do but practice monogamy, and we shouldn't. I won't get deep in to this subject, but it is a factor of why we behave the way we do. Women should choose men that will create and continue close bonds because of the need for paternal investment, but selectively mate with males with superior genes, both behavioral and physical. Women also can only have a given number of offspring; whereas, men should have as many offspring as possible by as many females as possible, but still select wisely. Of course there are other circumstances and factors that would cause a negative reaction. A cost-benefit analysis is performed every day in our lives, this being one. Do I mate with this individual and take the chance of getting caught, and the ramifications of the action.
I admit I did not read all the comments, but some are just assumptions made in to accepted facts. This is why I suggest a study to document data where statistical conclusions can verify stereotypes, create stereotypes, and give a "meaning full" answer(s) to this question - Why do black men like white women?!!!
I am a white woman who loves black men. Until 6 months ago I had been with white men exclusively. I came upon black men during a new room mate situation. I will never go back to white men. I now know what was missing all of those years. I am going to have to generalize here...white men are self centered, they have an entitlement attitude, the ones close to my age spend most of their time worrying about what they are going to eat next and when they can relax in front of the tv. Black men are attentive, they notice your moods,they make eye contact, and they enjoy having real conversations.Black men listen and they get personal. White men have a way of treating a woman as if she is invisible until she is needed. Sexually, black men are far more attentive, creative, and exciting. I am trying to keep this G rated...for many reasons I cant expound the saying "once you go black you never go back" is so true:)
Thanks for stopping by and providing all of us with some feedback Melissa!
Women are a lot easier to go to than black women.Speaking from experience, they always seem to understand. If you tell them your hurting or in pain, they try to make you feel more at ease. If you tell a black women that, you feel like your in the military (She just laugh and tell you to walk it off). I have my heart broken by black women so many times that I got tired of it. If I do open up to someone, it will definitely be with a white,asian,etc.
Your whole article was gross generalization. Such a cop out.
Cheyenne,
I'm sorry if you feel that way; but like I mentioned, this post is based on my own experiences. Furthermore, what may seem like a gross generalization to you is actually a reality for most black men living in my area. Does it apply to to men in the southern United States? Perhaps not, but there might be certain aspects of what I touched on that appear in different geographical locations in different forms. So what you see as a cop out, I and several others view as actual reality.....
No we aren't frightened of our women, unless you know the history of what he spoke then you to will not understand its true meaning. Keep It 100
I to know where you are with this one. Keep It 100
I'm black and I have dated white women as well as asians (I find that I am attracted to asian women but there are not that many where I am from)I do not chase after women based on race.Majority of my relationships have been with black women.When I have been in relationships with women from other races it just happened naturally.
As a bald,brawny,beefy-5'8'',214 lb.,18.5'' biceps-boyishly handsome
black Canadian lad,57,said by a lot of local-Windsor,Ont. ladies to
look 15-20 years younger than my age AND resemble a handsome black
cowboy,OF COURSE I prefer a buxom blonde because we look like a
great couple.Also,I go COMPLETELY boy-eyed over every big haired,
buxom,dark-skinned,leggy black girl,particularly cowgirls,biker and/
or rocker broads and Caribbean "birdies." who I believe the world's loveliest women.
Thanks for commenting Black Cowboy!
He is just the typical self hating black men who is trying to make an excuse why he doesn't like women. Don't take your low self esteem problems out on black women cause you hate the fact your black. But, I think you should only stick to white women because, you shouldn't date a black women knowing you hate the skin your in. That negative feeling you have upon yourself will be injected into a relationship with a black woman.
The white man should shoot a negroe if he is with a white women. He should not be killed but shot in the legs and an ambulance must be called.
If a white man finds that girl Mellisa. Shoot her in the head and feed the vile race tritor to the pigs.
White women are produced from the seed of a white man. white women are for white men only. If a white man sees a negroe with a white woman, he should take her from him. Negroes are a disgrace. They hate their own women. No other race has this problem like the blacks. They are still in chains. ps Tiger woods is an oriental.
To be honest, I really hate to see a black man with a white woman. It seems as though some black men put women higher than black women. Yeah there are some black women who is loud, ghetto and make the rest look bad but there are all white women are not good either. Some times, i just feel inferior cause i am black. A man will look at me and judge me and wont give me the time of day because of my skin color.
You are basically just a sell out. Your family should be your prime example not other women so um the women in your family were loud, annoying and irritating too? I like a man like my dad, black, proud, educated, well mannered and a person with integrity. Doesn't matter what the propaganda projects the avg black man to be a bum, self hating unemployed jail birds. You follow?
Interesting comment Legend 2005,
calling me a sell out due to certain experiences I have gone through during my adolescence. Jay-Z once sold drugs but then chose to forego that route to instead make music to get out of a bad situation. Does that make him a sell out? I say no. It made him an individual that sought to be in more comfortable surroundings for the sake of his life and family.
Although I might have lacked some self-esteem and also been misguided during my adolescent years, I was far from a sellout. You see, you think I relied on other people's opinions when forming mine, when in fact I relied on my own experiences. I assessed my situation here (as a teen no less) based off of a relatively small sample size which did not represent the norm. Furthermore, I grew up in a third world country where black people were predominant and never encountered this issue; hence it seems fairly obvious (at least to me) that my judgement was based on my few negative encounters with black females in a new country I had yet to discover.
Allow me to illustrate: imagine being 12 years old and going with your friends for the first time ever to Best Buy to purchase a portable CD player (obviously this is way back lol). You purchase your new "toy" only to get home and see it be defective. So you make it back to the store to replace it, which they do, only to see that your portable CD player now has a different issue. You go back to Best Buy and they tell you there's nothing they can do. The end result? You never go back to Best Buy. Rash judgement? A bit of an overreaction? Absolutely. But does that make you a sellout, a person with hate towards Best Buy or someone following propaganda? Of course not. It makes you a young misguided individual. I have learned, grown and moved on from my adolescent rationale, but the point I'm trying to make in my hub is that some haven't. Feel me?
As always, thanks for commenting.
Real,given that I possess a 154(genius-level,dude!!!)IQ AND Holly-
wood leading man good looks,I sure as hell don't hate myself(I don't know your age,but I'm 57 and am often mistaken for 15-20 years younger)OR ANYONE ELSE,I'M JUST NOT INTO FAT BLACK(WHITE,BROWN,RED,YELLOW)BROADS!!!YOU may be,but you're probably
p****-whipped and your 5'3'',250-350 lb. wife,girlfriend,etc.threatened to kick your a** if you didn't try to repudiate my arguments.9WHICH YOU DIDN'T BUDDY;YOU PROVED THEM!!!).Anyway,like a lof of us handsome black,white,Asian,Native American/Aboriginal,etc.lads,into into buxom blondes between 27 and 38.'Bye,you lemming-like a**-clown!!
REAL(IDIOT,THAT IS)your dumb a** CAN'T EVEN SPELL,and YOU'RE CALLING ME A SELF-HATER AND by insinuation,GAY???As I posted before,
PLEASE LEAVE that 5'4'',300+ lb. WHALE who's got your b**ls(assuming
you were born with a pair!!!)in her purse,leave her,get a buxom babe
(blonde,Latina,Asian,black,etc).and BE A REAL MAN,NOT A REAL PUNK!!!
This article was really interesting! =) I am soon to marry the man of my dreams, and I understand where you were coming from, in your article! Me and my fiancé were the first interracial couple in high school. Not knowing that one day we would be counting down our days till our wedding, we were out to have fun! I Was treated like dirt from all of the white males at my school, and it was almost to the point where I could never date or be with one. But then I realized that it's not so much about race, as it is who they are in the inside. Not every white guy was rude to me, and I don't find every African American guy attractive! I fell in love with the man on the inside, not the color on the outside! I am so excited to see how you have grown and learned from experiences, like I have! =)
white women are very hot....that is why :-)
here in the states you hardly ever see asians dating blacks,
because it is a power thing white skin presumes access to the POWER white women have all of the media making the case for them everyday so is it any surprise that wealthy black guys date white women??? black women are always down graded by the media so is it any surprise that neither white or asian guys generally do not date black women?
it is not 100% about personal preference there is a large component of simple advertising and fetishsizing white skin every minute of every day. look at magazine stands, look at the porno on line look at tv, you willl see what i mean
its not that black guys like white girls
its that black guys dont like black girls
my friend (whose black) told me he dont like blacks chicks because theyre loud and obnoxious like most black chicks he said
at least thats his opinion...
why do our black men fall right in love with white women its jus painful to our black women i men it is but to tell all the white women wants to be like a black women or a black girl well you will never never be baby girl because we are the queen b and to tell yall like they said on youtube black women jus need to mind there own business on those comments no bitch you mind your business and go back to your white baby daddy and i am not races it jus reminds me of my husband leaving me for a white women and every time i look at a white women with our black men walkin or kissing or any thing else it makes me madder and MADDER i mean MAD and it makes me want to fight them so i am asking please to all the white women who is dating our black men or either tryin to date our black men please i mean please STOP caution because there are to this day any where you go there is a black women fighting a white girl now jus to look what a nice relationship white women have with our blackmen thank you and remember what it said.
I've recently read 4 different articles on why Black guys like to date white girls and only once have I seen that it's because they're easyer. Heck I think white girls are a little easyer than a good Black Woman. Not for me though; but that may be because I am a sweet heart. I love the boldness of a Black Woman Any Day Over a White Lady!
I like your hub, i also took some time and to write on this subject. You can read it at www.whydoblackmenlikewhitewomen.blogspot.com
Go ahead and call me an ignorant redneck I don't care.
Stay the hell away form my daughter I will NOT have a
bunch of nappy-headed grandkids. Not in my house tough
shit if you don't like it STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM MY
DAUGHTER!!!
First of all I LOVE DARK SKINED MEN I really getting sick of all of talking crap bout our supreme gorges sepieour sexy black men all u have to do is go out with one of our loushes men and when u do that u aint going back even the a kkk guy wouldn't and if he did those beautiful bods would be on his mind every day like me. oh and did u forget they bread the strong ones over an over that's why there so great in sports. but I have not figured out how they dance so well it must be the soul that's in them:> Its lk a long time ago people were killed when I bet they tried it then got caught then said they were raped most of my true friends r black the white girls go to them if u ever noticed at almost closing time at the bar they just stand around they ares treated so bad still they deserve something cumming back at-least my friends r the most loyal people in the world u kw y cause I understand what they go through so stop hatting an take one out or hook up as friends. the world would be so boring with out them and there not the one spreading aids us girls r we have a choice to put a magnum on there thick members Its just not the same there nothing lk getting injected with 50,000 live sperms and hv them live inside of u. and as for them its there smooth skin there killer looking body's even when there bald its sooo sexy even a gut it just gets over looked ALL THE ROOMERS U HEAR ARE ALL TRUE ITS SO A TURN ON WHEN U HV A DARK BOD ON U GETTING READY TO SEED U i CANT GO OUT WITH WHITE GUYS BETWEEN THE CONTRAST THERE SOFT LIPS THE SMELL THE WAY THEY DRESS AND THAT BODASUSH BUTT THAT i HOLD ON WHEN MY BOY FRIEND IS ON TOP STAMINA even there getto slang is a turn on 4 me and there baggy pants they have to were those cause there love stick will be seen when not in use so stop talking all that bull and get u a bull and you be lk me mad from all the bs talk thank u for reading this thats how I feel and have for 30 years=D%
First of all I LOVE DARK SKINED MEN I really getting sick of all of talking crap bout our supreme gorges sepieour sexy black men all u have to do is go out with one of our loushes men and when u do that u aint going back even the a kkk guy wouldn't and if he did those beautiful bods would be on his mind every day like me. oh and did u forget they bread the strong ones over an over that's why there so great in sports. but I have not figured out how they dance so well it must be the soul that's in them:> Its lk a long time ago people were killed when I bet they tried it then got caught then said they were raped most of my true friends r black the white girls go to them if u ever noticed at almost closing time at the bar they just stand around they ares treated so bad still they deserve something cumming back at-least my friends r the most loyal people in the world u kw y cause I understand what they go through so stop hatting an take one out or hook up as friends. the world would be so boring with out them and there not the one spreading aids us girls r we have a choice to put a magnum on there thick members Its just not the same there nothing lk getting injected with 50,000 live sperms and hv them live inside of u. and as for them its there smooth skin there killer looking body's even when there bald its sooo sexy even a gut it just gets over looked ALL THE ROOMERS U HEAR ARE ALL TRUE ITS SO A TURN ON WHEN U HV A DARK BOD ON U GETTING READY TO SEED U i CANT GO OUT WITH WHITE GUYS BETWEEN THE CONTRAST THERE SOFT LIPS THE SMELL THE WAY THEY DRESS AND THAT BODASUSH BUTT THAT i HOLD ON WHEN MY BOY FRIEND IS ON TOP STAMINA even there getto slang is a turn on 4 me and there baggy pants they have to were those cause there love stick will be seen when not in use so stop talking all that bull and get u a bull and you be lk me mad from all the bs talk thank u for reading this thats how I feel and have for 30 years=D%
Hello ShyneIV,
As I read your article, and began getting a bit ticked off I remembered it was how I felt when I first read UP IN MICHIGAN, By Ernest Hemingway. LOL. I was pissed, but I loved learning something I had not realized before ....
I did not like how it showed a woman to be in a dream world about a man how never spoke to her until he wanted to have sex with her after he had too much liquor in him.
I may not like what you said, but it is what you experienced, and how you began dating those of the opposite race.
You are at least being honest about it, and truly saying that was how you were as a teen. Man, I do not have proud moments as a teen. LOL. I am not brave enough to share. LOL.
I do appreciate your honesty.
Thanks for sharing.
Take Care,
N.E.
Caisolla,if you saw as many black women as I as a black
man have witnessed-FAR TOO OTFEN FAT,FUGLY,FRIGID,B***HY AND,IN QUITE A FEW CASES,ALL FOUR!!!TO SAY NOTHING OF 100% GHETTO-YOU'D BE TREPIDATIOUS AROND THEM TOO!!!
(There's a good reason black broads HATE that Super Bowl 45 commercial which has an ugly,shrewish blaack broad's being obnoxious,then VIOLENT towards her boyfriend,EVEN WORSE when they're in public and a buxom blonde notices the good-looking laddie,to the black "lady's" chagrin.IT CAPTURES THEIR BEHAVIOUR-again often,not always-to a "T!!!)
Hey ok I have a few things to say. First off im BLACK & PANAMANIAN ,my dad is black an my mom is from panama he first language is Spanish been here 30yrs she looks black an is categorized as a black woman til she opens her mouth many people judge to quick not knowing who she is or where she from. I a black women an my father was in da military we moved round every four yrs I stayed in Detroit,houston ( where I reside), Ohio, N.C, Cali, New jersey, each state i have been in has different types of people an views an i have lived an experienced all! In Ohio i stayed in Fairview park & Parma i was 7-12yrs doin the period of time i stayed there. I was the only BLACK kid in my school everyone knew me cuz i was the only BLACK FAMILY. There were white kids who would call me names an there were white kids that were nice i never let that experience effect me though cuz i was taught that all people are not taught that others r raised different an that they would have different views but that doesn't give me the right to be mad because i was raised differently an my father would not allow such ignorance in his house. When we moved to N.C I meet one of my best friends today she stays down in Texas with me now. She is a white woman! When I say we r so much alike but different in so many ways its kinda hard for some to believe. She is a white women who does not like white men!! She says they stink they look just like her so she feels like its her brother, an I think that is so stupid to think of your own race something like how u did our race. Each person believes something different an I tell her she is not making her fellow white women some people just dont know any better an I feel sorry for u being racist to basically ur family I say be proud of who I r an represent to da fullest our people went thru to much from other races to do it to our own
This is an insightful hub. To all the detractors, you were only saying based upon your experience, that the Black young women you encountered encompassed the negative image of Blacks. Yes, I maintain that there is nothing inherently wrong with some Black men dating Caucasian women, there are some Black men who hate their race and themselves and want to eradicate their image and background by only dating White women.
However, my personal take on this issue- to me, there is no such thing is interracial or interethnic dating. This idea is totally atavistic and passe. We are all one people and we should date and marry whom we like with no questions asked.
Marie:
You need to re-read the Biblical story of the Prodical Son, and take a lesson on how to treat your daughter who ran away with the Haitian. You are her parent just like Jesus is your Father, I hope. How would you like for Him to disinherit or disown you? Money isn't love, and one day you will regret your decision. Don't give her money, if you think that is right, but do not disown her. Are you a mother, or what? Haven't you heard of forgiveness? It hurts Jesus when we mothers mess up too.
I think a lot of the angry, bitter black men had some bad experiences because of their own poor choices, so they want to stereotype all black women; and they talk about how white men stereotype them! Did these women who were obnoxious, and nasty spring their attitudes on you by surprise after you had fallen for them, or what? Did they trick you? It seems to me that you do not know how to choose women. If you men would look beyond sexual intercourse as a reason to approach a woman, maybe you would have a better chance of finding a good choice. I can understand wanting your idea of a beauty, but beauty alone won't get a good choice. Men, look for inner beauty first, good character traits that you desire in a woman, and then outer beauty. Some women, even black women have all of the good traits. If you prefer a white woman, who cares? BUT, you do not have to try to explain to us by bashing us. That's weak. Other men laugh at you for running. Don't run; walk. Don't feel that you need to give an explanation as to why you prefer a white woman; you don't. You make yourselves look weak when you appear to be afraid of black women. You actually run and whine to white women about how mean black women are to you. Wow! It would be better for you to do what you do and zip your lips because you are really making yourselves look bad. You cannot handle black women, yet you are after someone's elses. I find it very interesting how many of the white women are left alone with your babies just as too many of you leave black women; and you wonder why black women are so bitter!
Take your hands off your penises, step up to the plate of manhood, and watch how bitter women change. You do not fool us! We know that you are a big chunk of the blame. We share some blame too. So much for what the black woman has singlehandedly done to the poor black guy.
Maybe someone should get a hub going on the reactions of white women who have been fooled by black guys. I think I will do a little research first. I will begin with googling. I know that some of you black guys are men to be admired, but I am addressing the comments of these mad, black men.
The saddest part of all of this, angry black men, is that we are involved in a self-destruction war, and some people are sitting back laughing at our own destruction. You do not have a clue, do you? You do not know that many of these hubs were introduced just to stir up strife among people. There are mysterious ways to persuade a people to react and do certain things.
I meant what I said, but the fight is over. I am getting ready to eat breakfast, and I am not having collard greens and cornbread!
BlackSteelStudBrett1953:
57 years old? By now you are probably 60 and a great-grandpa. Do people really mistake you for a younger guy! You must be giving up some good money to get those big lies. You need to retire your butt, get ready for the nursing home, a social security check, and have a little relaxation before those chicks give you a massive heart attack, Pops! You are probably experiencing a mid-life crisis. Get over it; you're out to pasture.
Of course, I am teasing. I am sure you still have it!
Stephen:
You sound like a killer. Your strong language about killing could come back to haunt you someday. I have known people who were prosecuted because of things they wrote on the internet. I understand anger, but you are making nooses that do not care whose neck they are around. "A hint to the wise . . . ."
terced ojos:
I just had to comment on your statements to Shyne about black, nappy-headed women with dirty hair. I suppose anger makes people say ugly things. Yes, some black women do have dirty hair and other negative things. Have you ever seen dirty people of other races? Have you ever seen people in your race with head lice, scabies, oily nasty hair? Let me tell you a secret: There are nasty, dirty, lousy, people in all races. Did you not know that? You sound like an angry, out-of-control child.
I have always seen it as either or, they feel cleaner. They dont like there own race, they want to prove something,it was illegal back in the day so maybe its like a fetish...etc regardless its gross and its a sin.
A free Black man doesn't feel the need to explain, justify or even address the why. It amazes me how otherwise intelligent, reasonable people suddenly become ignorant. Seeing a Black man, with a White woman (or any non-Black woman) tells you nothing about that guys true dating/relationship history. How silly it is to jump to the conclusion to assume that the guy likes ALL or ONLY White women.
ShyneIV,
First people need to understand, that question comes from a black women. I've never had not one black man say why do we like white women? It would be a stupid question. I've never asked myself that, I have dated more white women then black, but it had nothing to do with race, it's who I connected with.
In most cases the women I connected with just happened to be white.
I also felt the same way you did. I went to a mostly all white school, it was always white girls approached me, the black girls that were there dated the guys that dressed a little urban, acted more thuggish where I was casually dressed in fitting clothes (nerdy).
Basically I've learned, that someone loves you for who you are, and chances are it could be anyone from any race. All black women aren't the same, and all black men aren't the same, and vice versa for all races.
At the end of the day date who you want to date. But, me I'll date you accepts me for me tight jeans, and all! lol
I meant I'll date who accepts me for me.
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I do not understand all of the talk about black women being masculine, verbose, ghetto, and the like. OK. So, some black women are loud and assertive. I have worked on several jobs that required me to deal with lots of people of various races. I mean lots! I know people in general, because I have worked with, and observed, so many, including their personal situations. I have seen women in many races misbehave in public in ways that would shame dogs. I have seen black and white women fight like cats. I have seen them curse like sailors. What's with saying that only black women act fools, boss men, and act out unnecessarily. If you believe that kind of behavior is limited to black women, you do not know people very well. I am not going to list poor behaviors of people because people who live around people should know. "Only blacks like watermelon. Only black men know how to have sex. White women are hotter." People, who's so ignorant that they do not recognize stereotypes? No one alive can say what all white or black women do or like unless they have experienced with all white or black women. Ignorance abounds! People will say anything to defend their choices. When a husband tells his wife that he will be working late. He may be telling her that because he does not want to say, "Honey, I am going to spend three hours with my mistress, so don't cook supper for me. She and I are going out for Chinese. By the way, I am learning to enjoy her culture more seeing that I will be leaving you soon." No, he won't tell her the truth. He will line his story to cover his true choice to be with another woman.
Black women come in all characters, people who may not know. Even black men have not experienced them all.
It's ashamed but this is true. The quality of life that most black women come from is indicative of their attitude. On the other hand the same is true with white women. 70% of people on welfare are white. So they come from trailor parks and ghettos as well as blacks. It's when a black man gets a taste of so called upper class whites that his attitude changes and he associates his attraction towards women with caucasian women. Remember whites and blacks don't live together. Not even poor whites and blacks. When a black man from the ghetto mixes with a middle or upperclass white woman who has more afforded them they see a different side of women period. Naturally they associate it with white women. People learn from their environments, and their socio economic backgrounds and also by the value of class of people they are considered to be in society. It's not cool to be black in america so they say. But if a person has a chance to have a part of what is considered cool then he naturally will gravitate and lust for it. That is the major reason why black men turn towards white women. And remember it was not too long ago when blacks were still getting lynched. It takes time to build self esteem and self worth especially within an entire race of people. It all boils down to this white is considered right.
I will add i do notice that obnoxious aggressive attitude black women have, that is somewhat unappealing, but black men are obnxious also. Like in the Lib today this black girl is watching a video in a quiet zone and even looking at her to try and gesture her to lower her screen volume made no difference. Its nice to see black girls not go with the flow like many races like indians girls who a r dead silent, but at times they take it too far.
tru4life makes a great point: your preferences and a few random statements from your homies don't make your findings defensible. I'm a white woman with a lot of black friends, and here's my experience: Black men want to have sex with white women, and they want to be with black women. The reason they want to be sexual with white women is because, in general, white girls don't call them to be truthful. The white woman's lack of courage makes them easy to be with, but fosters disrespect. Oh sure, sometimes it turns into marriage. But that doesn't make it a good relationship. Black men respect black women, because black women respect themselves. And black women are judicious in marrying, because they don't want a crappy life, more so that white women,--so unlike their white sisters, they generally don't sell out.
Black Brothers who suffer from Internalized Racism. Find some self respect. Stop blaming our black women for your self-hating foolishness. I am a brother, with pride in my black heritage and black women. My wife, my mother, my only sister. Do not disgrace the females in our race because of your failure to be a Man. Real men (do not) degrade or generalize their women. Only immature, insecure, self-hating jerks. Too many brothers are thuggish, philanderers, loud and materialistic. Jocks without man training, failing to uplift their community because they suffer from the illusion of inclusion with white supremacy. Black is not a condition but an enduring experience. Brothers you are the disgrace and slave to the black community. Do Not Include all black men in your destructive notions and inner cowardice.
You should have had counseling as an adolescent. It is not too late now. You have stereotyped black women badly. You know that all black women are not alike. Of course, you have a negative view of black women because your mind was set against them when you were a child. Did you have good black sisters, mom, aunts, cousins? I do not understand how you missed out on knowing many characters of black women. You seem afraid of black women, and you have labeled them because of a few incidents in your past. You also know that all white women are not great. Some are, not all.
Please get some counseling. Peace.
ShynelN: I forgot to add: You know most of the streotypes that other races place upon black men. Here are a few:
Lazy and uneducated
Broke
Rapists
Gangsters
Drug sellers
Deadbeat fathers
Women beaters
Street walkers
Cursers
Alcoholics
Aids carriers
Liars about their sex lives
Cheaters
Thieves
Should I go on? I know that this does not apply to all black men. I also know that they all apply to every race. I know many wonderful black men who are model husbands, fathers, community advocates, businessmen, friends, and many more. I will never stereotype my brothers. I am smart enough to know better. Peace.
Latina and terced ojos:
If you have not seen dirty hair and bodies among people of your races, you are blind. Let me inform you, I have seen plenty of them. There are dirty people in all races. I am not one to insult others because I am not a stranger to the uses of dignity and respect, but some people seem so dense. Act a little better than you do, please. Your behavior is not attractive.
Most Black mens thinks Black womens are hard to get along with and over baring, where as White Womens are more likely to compromise with them.
Black mens say they want a strong Black womens, but they don't, they want a yes, yes Black women and they are not having it.
Black mens when they become successful the turned to the White womens, but its the Black women help that made sure the Black man to that point. So in many ways i understand why they are angry, they need to get over it and move forward.
I have done a study and what you said "know that this doe not apply to all black men" clearly you dont know shit............a very larg percentag does apply to "the black man" and a very very very small percentage woul then apply to all "other races" i truly think because of the black mans hatred and jealousy of the white man the only way to really get the revenge for future generations would be to impregnate the white woman with there seed.....this creates a race that has been forever tainted....like adding chocolate syrup to milk....it has forever changed no matter what you try to do....the atoms have been forever disturbed.....feedback welcome
ShynelV: You have some interesting hubs. I have read several.
I can understand that our environments help to determine who we are, but aren't you glad that your father was impressed to marry your mother? Otherwise, you would not have been born.
One point that I was trying to make was that there are more negative tags circulating about Black men than Black women. That does not make them all true, although some are true about both.
dman:
What race hasn't "tainted" another? Your race is certainly not excluded. You are not the only one who does not want race mixing, but some people know how to voice their opinions without being indecent.
"the atoms have been forever disturbed."
Continue that research. You are headed in the right direction and have some more discoveries in store. You should have been around 300 years ago. Your presence might have made a world of difference. I wonder who started this race mixing between blacks and whites in America! Let me know what your research reveals about that.
Calm down before you have a stroke. This is just a debate.
So I guess my comment was a little too much truth for you huh?
Black men date white women for the same reason so many black men prefer black women who have light skin, eyes, and long silky hair. They perceive that white women are more beautiful, more feminine or lady like and more kind and compliant than black women. This is the truth.
When you think about it, this makes perfect sense. Who are the women most depicted in the media, movies, porno, etc. and put forth as the “hotties.” Is it more often asian, Hispanic or native American women? Very, very few. What you do see is thin blonde, blue-eyed women sometimes with fake attributes on their chest.
The white, blonde blue eyed woman is the Bentley of females as far as the media is concerned. If she had her dithers, many white woman would have blonde hair and blue eyes, be skinny with big boobs. This is what their men want, and it’s what a lot of black men want as well.
However, black men aren’t as fixated on blonde hair as they are on long silky hair and light skin. This is why black women wear hair weaves and relax their hair. Their men prefer women with long, straight hair. If yours is naturally long and straight and your skin is very bright, even better.
So, the stories about black women and their nasty attitudes is an excuse for black men who don’t want to reveal their true physical preferences lest they be called out for their self-hatred. If you can’t stand afro textured hair and darker features, you can’t stand yourself. End of story. If you admit as much you have to face up to this unpleasant fact.
It’s easier to say that black girls are horrible people than it is to flat out say you think they are ugly and by extension you really find yourself ugly.
LOL to it all either you like someone for who they are or you don't black, white, yellow or red!
Because black girls are ugly
I don't mean tyra banks black, I mean BLACK, Oprah black.
Im recently divorced 48 and dating a blk man.... he told me the exact thing that you stated ... I think your philosphy is right ....hes 50 and has had alot of life experience so hes "lived "it
Yes, all black men prefer a white girl if they can get one BUT try to get one to admit that truth...lol.
I respect all the comments but calling Black men sell put because they date Caucasians men is a bit much. We all have reasons for all our actions. I personnally think you should date whoever you like simply because some things are just out of our control. Let's not forget that it's experience that dictates our actions.
If a man Black White or whatever does not like a black woman it's his loss. This is coming from a black girl. I've dated mixed, Black and white. Men are men ego and all.
It's up to us see these comments and ask ourselves why?
You have different types of women in any race. I don't particularly thing Black women are loud but u can find loud black women and loud white women by just stepping outside your from door.
the coulor of my skin doesn't dictate who I am. I can't imagine being anybody else.
I prefer white and Latin ladies because,along with the fact that I am a life-size Brad doll-you older folk DO remember Barbie's then-
boy Ken's handsome black buddy,Brad,don't you?-we ALWAYS make a great-looking couple.Add the fact that FAR too many black women are fat,fugly,frigid,b***hy or,in a surprising number of cases,ALL FOUR,
and black women think themselves we black men's superior,regardless
of their lack of looks,brains,personality,etc.,and it's EASY to see why I'm ALWAYS after a long-haired,preferably buxom blonde
or Latin babe!!!!
i have a black boyfriend and i love him because of his personality. I also find everyone doesnt matter black white or yellow has faults and positive sides there are personalities and no skin colour. I find ur article ok but u should not be so comparing with white and black woman i find it brings a kind of a tension in where noone feels comfortable discussing it. It should be more why do black men like white woman in general, where definetely the cultural difference plays a role and in general that u are so different from each other. I have a black boyfriend and i love him for this what he is. and i think i'm almost more attracted to black men then white.but what i would never say is that white guys are like this and this and black guys like this and this cause my boyfriend is almost whiter then me sometimes. so yeah i don't like to generalize.
Some of these comments are the most ignorant I've ever seen. I'm an 18 year old African American. Coming from a military family, I've lived in states all over the country. And each state had a different ratio of ethnicities. I've had many different friends of different races. And from these experiences, I've been attracted to women of every race I've come across. Black, white, Mexican, Cuban, puerto rican, Hawaiian, native American, and Indian. But the city I've spent the most time in, has Hispanic (mostly Mexican) and black people as the majority. The majority of my high school were minorities. I can say that there was 1, maybe 2 white people some of my classes. Most of them had no white people. But in community, most, read it again, MOST of the black women, and men, are what you would call ghetto. Loud, obnoxious, mostly bare minimum educated, rude, and inconsiderent. Of course I'm definitely not saying all black people are like this, but this is how they are around me. The ones in my family aren't. But my point is I still love black women, because I know not all are like that. I've been attracted to every race I come across. I've dated a white girl, 2 black girls, a Mexican girl, and a Japanese girl. And I'm not what you would consider to be an Uncle Tom. I listen to rap, wear urban clothes, even use slang. But I don't tolerate ignorance. I'll avoid any girl of any race, no matter how beautiful she is. I understand shyne is saying his experience in his youth pushed him away from black women. And it did for me too when I was younger. But I understand the ghetto ones, of any race doesn't represent the entire race. I'm not scared of black women. I'm just not attracted to the ghetto ones. And many black women you see in person always refer to themselves as a "strong black woman". In my community, most black women that call themselves strong just think that if you question everything, start an argument because you think you can win, or shout your opinion about everything makes you strong. They try to hold up this false sense of strength because that's what they think they are being. Strong. When really its just being difficult. Simple as that. And these are the same women who tell black men to stick to black women, and tell white women to stop stealing their men. Most black men/white women relationships aren't because of what the man doesn't like, but because of what the man likes. If I date a white woman, I'm dating her because I like HER and she happens to be white. Not because she's white. Most black women think that when they see a black man with a white woman, it's because the man doesn't like black women, and that makes them angry. Then the whole "black men are just scared of black women because we're strong" theory comes to mind. Maybe that particular man had bad experiences with black women, and doesn't understand not all are the same. Or he just thinks that most are the same and doesn't want to sort through to find the good ones. Maybe he just isn't physically attracted to black women. Who knows? But that's not the case for me. I just like beautiful, fun loving, kind hearted, down to earth women. If the one I find happens to be white, so be it. She could be black, Asian, Hispanic, or Arabic for all I care. As long as she has the traits I'm looking for.
I am white and dated a dominican girl(not even black) and i would have thugs wanting to fight me because they thought i was with a black chick. Got way more grief than any black dating a white girl. Maybe thats a better thread "why black guys rather humilate their women instead of seeing them w a white guy?"
Why do blacks use the excuse about white people being in the media... their are more white people here, black people feel they can use it as an excuse for everything unlike asians and latinos that don't let it affect them and love their own women. Another side to that is many white boys are intrigued by black culture but the majority doesn't let it affect them when they are older, most are smart enough to "not act black" and pull up their pants by the time they want to succeed. It's not the white peoples fault only black people can't grow out of chasing white girls.
You white guys on here posting about how you would kill your daughter if she dates a black guy... your daughters chances of dating a black guy just tripled haha
they have done many studies on race with children and they are way more likely to pick up a white doll or for boys a white action figure rather than black... For most people white is just flat out prefferred and unfortunately for you being the minority its going to affect your culture in america.
of course black guys prefer white chicks... they are much hotter than black girls, but not that many black guys can get a decent looking white chick.
there's a reason why you black guys don't find black women attractive is because there arent that many just like there isn't many good looking black guys. If you can't land an attractive black woman it puzzles everyone why you would rather find an equally ugly white woman.
I already have white ancestry and white people in my family so I may as well date white women.. if I date black women it just makes me look like some kind of slave or something..
I am what people would call a mixed male (Black,Samoan,Japanese),
I was raised not to see the color of ones skin, Never have and most likely never will.
Let's look at some facts. Race is non existing (and this is a fact), but culture does and that's normally what sets people apart from one another. I am sure most of the people who are posting here are American like myself because I can see the hatred from the comments that they post sadly, but lets move on. We are as people (American) tend to set ourselves up by color of skin (Who we spend our time with..etc) when in fact its just culture that attracts us to each other nothing more. I myself grew up listening to music like Rock, Country, Old School R&B), and so did my friends. Here is the kicker since we all grew up in the same area listening to the same things among other factors we all happen to attract each other as a group. I would like to point out that we were a mixed group as well (Blacks, Hispanics, White, Asians). Color of skin never played a factor in our friendship what so ever but culture did. Lets look at the UK compared to us here in the U.S. The people in the UK really have a pretty standard culture for everyone that is not really depended on color of skin, and they see it as just that a culture. While we here in the U.S confuse culture with race.
Let me get to the point. Shayne I do very much understand where you are coming from and no I do not see you as a cop out, but here is the main thing its just what you are attracted too. Just like anyone else, you can not help what you are attracted to, who you fall in love with and so on.
Like I said before I am what people would call a mixed man. My beautiful wife is Irish, and we have a lovely little girl.
Race plays no factor on who a person really is, Personality and Culture does.
Only a self-hating White girl would date a Negro. Only one brainwashed by the Media and Thug culture. They're usually what we call White trash. It's either that or something happened in their life -- something real bad and it made her HATE all White men with a passion. Remember that if White people demonstrated the SAME amount of racist pride and love for themselves as Negroes do, there wouldn't be no Blacks at all and there wouldn't be the right for a black man to obsess over our women. Asian girls included too.
It's also detrimental for any race to race mix. Imagine how it would lower the IQ of America if we were all to mix with Negroes. It's also like a life ''without rainbow'' everyone would be the same and everyone would be equal. Another multicultural cesspool. Yes , it is the media that damaged the mental faculties of the weakest of White women, and these girls happen to be attracted to black men. Thank fucking God most of them are fat and overweight. But when I see a pretty one-- I get the same attitude as a Negro would have seeing a White man with a pretty Black chick. I'd wanna straight beat the crap out of him. It's biological.
Also, if White women knew the truth about Black men ( that which is in harmony with their intuition, reason , perception,will,imagination and not perverted by media brainwash) the black man would be the LAST motherfucker she'd hang around with.
Statistics speak for themselves. Black males RAPE 104 White women a day in the US. They are civilization's CALAMITY.
THANK GOD PEOPLE ARE WAKING UP ! AND GOD BLESS THE INTERNET.
And every race must fall which carelessly suffers its blood to become mixed."
Benjamin Disraeli
??? Miscegenation (“mix race”) is the interbreeding of the races, especially blacks and whites. Miscegenation was illegal in many states until 1967 when the U.S. Supreme Court overruled a Virginia court and declared those laws unconstitutional under the unconstitutional Fourteenth Amendment. Not that long ago miscegenation was viewed as akin to bestiality , but today it is promoted by the video and print media, even in advertising, and columnists despair that there is not enough of it.
??? Evolution “automatically” works against miscegenation. Every population has variation. Over time, the individuals in a population who have traits most advantageous for particular environments concentrate in those environments and become sub-populations. If some of the individuals in one of those sub-populations develop traits that prevent them from interbreeding with individuals in the rest of the population, they will have an advantage over other individuals in their sub-population because they will not waste resources producing progeny who lack the advantageous traits for the sub-population’s environment. For that reason, sub-populations evolve traits that discourage or prevent interbreeding with other sub-populations, and the sub-populations eventually become different species.
??? To a physicist, miscegenation brings to mind the Second Law of Thermodynamics, which says that in a closed system, order goes to disorder (i.e., entropy increases). Without getting technical, this means that if you have a gallon each of white, black, and yellow paint, “paint” being a metaphor for a collection of racial traits, and mix them together, it would take many times the age of the universe before the pigment particles in the mixture again separated into white, black, and yellow paints. The uniqueness of those colors would be forever lost. Life, like other acts of creation, is a local lowering of entropy; miscegenation, like death, destruction, and chaos, increases entropy.
??? When miscegenation occurs, the alleles that make the interbreeding races unique do not necessarily disappear, but, like the pigment particles in the paint, they can no longer be separated again into the unique collections that constituted the original races. The races, as distinct forms of life, are destroyed forever. As argued earlier in this book, it took at least two million years to create and select the alleles that make us different, but it takes only an instant of miscegenation to scramble them up again. The selection of some of those alleles required the suffering and death of hundreds of thousands of people who did not have them, so the creation of racial differences was not without great cost. To destroy this monumental natural creation – us, so thoughtlessly and permanently, is akin to desecrating graves, dynamiting ancient statues, bombing cathedrals, and burning the library at Alexandria. What is the most valuable possession populations have that they can pass on to the next generation? It is not wealth or even knowledge. It is their genome, their ability to reproduce themselves as the unique people that they are. To squander that by miscegenation is the ultimate betrayal of one’s heritage.
??? To a biologist, the loss of distinct races of humans might bring to mind the relatively recent extinctions of species such as the dodo bird, the Carolina parakeet, the passenger pigeon, and many of the birds of Hawaii, as well as various frogs, mammals, and even the 65 mya extinction of the dinosaurs. Nothing saddens a lover of nature so much as seeing a unique form of life become extinct, and nothing is as gladdening as finding that a species once thought to be extinct (e.g., the ivory billed woodpecker) still lives.
??? Most scientists value diversity as an end in itself, for how dull life would be if they could study only one kind of star, rock, bacteria, cloud, and so on. No dog lover would want all the breeds of dogs to interbreed, so that all dogs are mongrels. No breeder of race horses would want his thoroughbreds to breed with common riding ponies. No garden lover wants all his flowers to come in only a single color or shape, or his tomatoes or apples in only a single variety, and no oenophile would want only a single red wine and a single white wine to choose from. Only those driven mad by the maladaptive ideology of egalitarianism cheer the loss of diversity that results from their demands for more of it. 6 To borrow from the anti-racists, one might call the end result of miscegenation, “Life without rainbows.”
??? Egalitarians love diversity so much that they insist that everything – our corporations, restaurants, hotels, neighborhoods, schools, television, movies, and textbooks 7 must all be diverse – everything, that is, except people, who must miscegenate to become the same and therefore equal. They were overjoyed in 2003 when the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that “diversity” (i.e., racial quotas) is so important that colleges can legally violate the Fourteenth Amendment, 9 but only for 25 yrs, by discriminating against Eurasians in order to achieve diversity in their student bodies. But their love of diversity is different from the love others have for it. Egalitarians love diversity not as an end, but as a means. They do not want to preserve the diversity of the peoples of this planet; they want to destroy it. Making all human contact diverse is simply their means for destroying human diversity. Mix the races physically, and they will mix biologically on their own. Diversity to destroy diversity. The loss of biological diversity, which most of us would not wish on the living things we love and value, egalitarians wish upon man himself.
??? Some egalitarians openly encourage miscegenation, while others even condemn the failure to miscegenate as “racist,” and still others argue that everyone might as well miscegenate because everyone is already a mixture. In the sense that the races share most alleles (as do people and chimps), everyone is a mixture but, as we shall see in the next chapter, there are major differences between (1) people within a population interbreeding and (2) people from very different populations interbreeding.
??? It is not necessary to involve the government in people’s intimate decisions in order to reduce miscegenation and preserve the uniqueness of the Earth’s peoples. People themselves, given their freedom, can accomplish this. They can segregate themselves, . They can boycott movies, television, and books that show or advocate miscegenation. And they can ostracize those who practice, encourage, or condone it. Parents can disapprove of their children dating interracially and withhold benefits, such as weddings, gifts, inheritances, and social support from children who defy their wishes and reject their own people as mates. They can cite statistics showing that they are many times as likely to get a STD from a black as from a white and, for females, many times as likely to be beaten, raped, and murdered. Many things can be done but, until people come to believe that it is desirable and morally good to preserve their own genetic heritage, nothing will be done.
??? The race mixers love to point out that white men fear that black men will take “their” women. Of course, they fear that; 14 for a white man, it’s a significant loss in fitness. The biological purpose of a male of any species is to pass on his alleles, and the principal way he does this is by impregnating females. But he gets a big bonus if he impregnates a woman who already has more of the same alleles that he has, i.e., someone of the same race , and his fitness falls if he lets someone of another race impregnate “his” women (and similarly for women). This biological purpose implies, of course, that he must not only compete against other men, particularly men of a different race, but win that competition. If he does not even try to win and, indeed, facilitates his own failure, then his unique collection of alleles, including the alleles that made him a biological loser, ar
HAHAH this is hilarious. Im black and I myself have never been with a white chick. Its just not my thing. The pale skin i think is what gets to me.
I am hispanic and people confuseme for caucasian. my husband is black hispanic. i always have problems w black women judging us. if it wasnt for me he would not even be in the usa! Anyways, i believe when u click with someone or fall in love with their smile..who cares what race they are? those who are judging everyone else are the racists
Anon Again, I have one thing to say before I begin. Its one thing to let people think you are a fool, its another to open your mouth and prove them right.
Let me start with Uhm's comment First off show me a creditable source for your "so called" black men rape so many white women every year.(You can't, and that's the point). Second so for you its okay if a black man is with a white woman as long as shes fat or ugly? but if she is a good looking woman its not okay? Are you built on stupid or something? I think that most of the people here would agree on the fact that your just a dumb person who happens to know how to type. I guess score one for you...
As for this competing crap...You do realize that there is 3.2 billion men, and 3.4 billion women right?
All this mobojombo you crapping out from between your fingers is nothing short of the bull crap that Hitler himself was yelling out to the German people.
There is a 2009 Documentary called "The Human Family Tree". That I am sure that most of you would find very interesting.
I have a question for everyone. Why would you want to beat up someone for something they can't control. (i.e happen to fall for someone that does not have the same color skin as they do). That is like the homophobes who pick on and beat up people of the LGBT community for wanting to be with someone of the same sex. How stupid can you as a person really be? (I hear pretty stupid)
I read a lot of the postings here. Pretty funny. You people do realize there is no such thing as race. Humans are one of the LEAST diverse genotypes on the face of the planet. The american mosquito has approximately 1,000,000 time more genetic diversity but we all think they are the same. Kind of like how all black people are the same. Haha. Black and white americans share more genetic similarities than a white person in america and a white person in switzerland. Different races cannot interbreed. Such as when two sharks cannot mate because they are a different race. You ever hear of two humans than can't get it on? This whole posting is about the fact that "different races" act differently. That's not the case. What you see is color not race. Don't get it twisted. Now if you want to know why people act the way they act, check their socioeconomic status. A lot of that has to do with self-fulfilling prophecies. Just because your black doesn't mean you can shoot hoop. Just because your asian doesn't mean your good at math. But if people incessantly tell you that, it may just come true. Grow a brain people. On to the next...
Lets reverse the question, why do all white men like me?
I am a black woman and I find that wherever I go white men seem to love me, even black men turn around and say that I love off white man. I have a beautiful black husband and two beautiful black princesses. My answer is because I know who I am and where I am coming from. I am comfortable with who I am, I am educated thus I know how to compose myself and just basically confident as a black woman. My social circles are various, I can mix with the rich down to the poor. I am versatile but at the same time I know myself. Do not get me wrong I have dated many an agressive black man but this has never made me stray from my roots because I know that not all people are the same.
Why don't everyone just date their own race and end the stipidity.
I agree.. The black guys I've dated say the same thing.. The reason I date black men I find them very attractive and great lovers..
shyne - its a good thing you didn't grow up in haiti eh? you'd still be a virgin.
Personally, I prefer African and Caribbean men of a darker complexion. Before anyone asks, I am not Caucasian (not really, anyway). My maternal grandfather is White, but for census purposes, I fully identify as black. White guys just don't appeal to me personally, but its not for something specific they did. Just have a thing for strong black men, like my father, paternal grandfather, etc. I could easily say no more black men as I've had my share of heartbreak and drama from them, but hasn't everyone, regardless of the person's race/ethnicity?
Shyne- your hub was well written & I wish you the best with whomever you end up with.
Well... ill be the first one to say it... In my experience i think the reason is because of of less drama.
Some people won't like my answer, but at the risk of being patronizing, I'm just "keepin it real" ;-)
My answer as to why black men like white women is because:
1. It gives them status. Right or wrong, white people are considered by many to have a higher social status than black people. Some black men view dating a white woman as an elevation of their status. and...
2. White women tend to have more delicate and "feminine" physiology than black women. Some men prefer this. (By the way Asian women tend to have even more feminine physiology then white women and some men -- both black and white -- prefer Asians for that reason).
Obviously peoples' taste varies and not all black men are attracted to the same things or for the same reasons. Do I even need to say that?
But I think the reality for a lot of black men who are attracted to white women is exactly what I described.
I'm a good looking white guy and I only date black women. If I had time, I would tell you the reasons behind that. But it's off topic so I will leave it at that. ;-)
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Well said but the tendency to say that black men are ONLY dating white women for status is madness. You're a white man with a black woman but why have you picked a black woman instead white girl? Why haven't you picked a... Asian Woman instead?
"(By the way Asian women tend to have even more feminine physiology then white women and some men -- both black and white -- prefer Asians for that reason)."
Wrong. I had a japanese brazliliam girlfriend for 2 years and the only thing which made me ever interested in date her was based in 1. Media = Animes (I was a teen fascinated for animes), 2. Covers and extra feminility which the asian media in the west show them up. In the end I married a white woman, 10 times better woman and real than that my ex asian gilfriend.
The fact that asian men force asian females to be feminine, so feminine that it overpass the asian male feminility traits is the key here. It's good to remember that asian men along with white men are the most and totally owners of homosexuality. Asian men also are the "woman" in IR with white men homosexuals.
Black men are the ultimate word for masculinity. Homosexuality in Sub-sahara africa was traited as a death note. Blacks simply are the last likely to be gays by nature. Being it said, women who port more feminility in a masculine's eyes wins. White women are feminine, black women too. Where I live there's some dozens of millions black and white mixes so the stereotype of saying that black men go for white women for pure status is completely crazy. No that I care for what people says in the internet though. But it's a "must to say". The fact is that colour attracts. White women also are attracted to black men. They would have all reasons in the world to say NO, for any black man by the way, mixed or not.
So let's put it that way, asian women are fake when it comes to true feminility. They are dolls. It's different. Real white women are WOMEN. In nature. And I've been with many before marrying my white wife as friends and partners as well. All of them are women compared with dolls (what real woman is racist toward alpha males? None. It's genetic. White women can be with the poorest black man and still portrait themselves as a true black woman, put a doll to be a woman in that situations and the figurine falls).
Etectera. I'm not against Asian women I'm saying my personal and real experience comparing "women". Latinas are mixed... so you can find all of this in a point. Black women are hott. Their skin complexion is the perfect and hot, everyone from every country wants it mainly when they are dark-light caramel or just with a bit of mix, multi-racials. Black women are dominant it's complicated when they are together with a dominant male (in the case black men which make the whole package masculine, as many says). That's for sure the main reason that black men very deep in africa didn't build castles with flowers for strong black women. They were partners with the same level of masculinity.
THE TRUE OPINION ABOUT WOMEN - A random black man who have been with black, asian and married a white lady.
a black woman can go to hell and back with and for a black man, but in the end it does not matter he will lie to keep and have his young white woman and even take on her all white kids. he through me under the bus to the woman. I don't have a ghetto bone in my body, and neither do my children, but that did not matter. He even told my daughter if she was to date or talk to a white guy he would not ever speak to her again. Takes her on trips w/him, envites her to his job banquets....the kicker is he still lives with me. A black woman will never have what she needs dealing with a black man, but those are the only guys that will talk to a black woman so she just can win.
I can't read all that stuff - I just like black guys - socially, sexually any and every way. I always have, I can't seem to have any other way - I just like black guys; i'm always lookin for it; i want it; hell yea!
eurika said,
"of course black guys prefer white chicks... they are much hotter than black girls, but not that many black guys can get a decent looking white chick"
I find it ironic that you all say just the things that challenge those certain Black men to do what you say you do not want them to do. I see more Black men with prettier white girls now that you all poke fun of the ones with fat White girls. Should I say "Good job"? Haven't you ever heard of reverse psychology, or are you really a Black guy trying to get other Black guys to look for prettier White girls? If youare, then, this would be reverse psychology for you. I am curious.
White men only have themselves to blame for White women straying. They have exploited them forever. I can walk into any grocery store, WalMart, anywhere and see half-naked White women used to advertise underwear, on front covers of magazines, or just about anything. A half-naked woman is used to advertise toothpaste or any old thing. They have been practically put up for sale.
eurika,
You say Black men get White women because they are much hotter than Black women. You have just sold your women. This is constantly heard in the media. Show me two hamburgers and tell me which one is hotter. Guess which one I want? You said it! White men exploit their women. Do you dangle a t-bone in front of a doberman and expect him to walk away? He sniffs, smacks his lips, and gets ready to devour.
There are cultures that have their women cover themselves, even their faces, except eyes. Some wear wraps and long apparels. In contrast, look at American White women, always exposing themselves. (I know that some Black American women do it too, but not nearly as much as the White women. It is probably because Black women are not as demanded, thank God.) How many Black men are after those women of other cultures who wear covers? What are the chances of getting White women to cover themselves? I am referring to the exploited ones. We know that all White women do not allow themselves to be exploited. No stereotyping is intended.
Watch the awards programs. the White men wear full tuxedos, or other full outfits, but their women wear dresses V-cut from throat to navel, half of their breasts exposed, and splits to their waistlines. "If you are not in the business, stop advertising" because someone will "buy."
I think White men need to change how they do things, not get angry because they tempt other men to desire their women. Ask the average Black man who chased whom, and I guarantee you most will tell you that the White women approached them first. Whose fault is that? I am not blaming the women. Men are supposed to lead with good examples. Understand that I am not judging mixed couples. That's God's job. I have my opinions, but they are not gospel.
White men do not look like Japanese or Chinese people or most other Asians, but they are helping themselves to the women. How can you convince your women to stay put when you are straying yourselves? Some of you are even ordering women of other cultures by mail. Sounds desperate to me. Set an example of what you want your women to do. If they start sending out applications for husbands, what can you say?
whiteguy:
You wrote, "Why don't everyone just date their own race and end the stipidity."
You are a few hundred years late for this sermon. Good luck.
u are right bro our blacks got a glitch
"Watch the awards programs. the White men wear full tuxedos, or other full outfits, but their women wear dresses V-cut from throat to navel, half of their breasts exposed, and splits to their waistlines. "If you are not in the business, stop advertising" because someone will "buy."
I think White men need to change how they do things, not get angry because they tempt other men to desire their women. Ask the average Black man who chased whom, and I guarantee you most will tell you that the White women approached them first. Whose fault is that? I am not blaming the women. Men are supposed to lead with good examples. Understand that I am not judging mixed couples. That's God's job. I have my opinions, but they are not gospel."
Totally agree with your opinion Leverties, except for the fact that we're talking about NATURE. The Nature is the Universe or everything. So some concepts should be fixed and re-studied if we're really going after the right anwswers.
So let's compare nature, insects and other animals with humanity and universe.
Quotting:
1. "Men are supposed to lead with good examples."
a) Men are suppose to protect their females. That's it. In the insect realm, most females are the workers and the males or macho are just to procreate or forcing work for the "queen worker" Ex: Ants, spiders and other insects where males are dark usually and females more clear and delicate. In some spiders cases, the females are the dominant to be honest (some males are even 1/10 smaller than the spider female). Mamals tend to follow the same rule with expcetion that the male starts to dominate the "hard work". Back to humanity, what exactly true white humans did with black humans A.k.A (hard work I do the smooth or intellectual work). If the readers are expert in any scientific field, compare what "white" actually do in the space and what black does. Compare it with the pure black and white race (independent if pale skinned are some kind of albinos and came from dark pigmented humans RE- adapted).
b) The male in command is the WHITE MAN. He's organized, delicate and without steroids, pretty -feminine- as much as a white woman. That follows the same rule which black women are featured with masculine tendences, including psicologically. That being said, WOMEN ARE IN COMMAND not MEN. To be delicated, sensible, fair, intellectual, following the rules of NATURE comparing other male and female creatures, the female is actually the intellectual, the male is the brutal force. If the nature to adapte humans isolated in cold and hot regions more than it already have done, and considering that white men and asian men have strong homosexual tendences and feel the need of the beauty and vanity in their lifestyle, who is in command and follow the universe natural rules are the WOMEN, not the men. That's clear if you compare stuffs happening in the cosmos, in other mamals and insects as well.
Being it said, the true real fact here is, the woman is the one who is intellectual and searching for independence. White men are white women more masculine. Black women are black men more feminine. Any adjustment that the nature would do would be remove the 'more' and it would wipe black women and white men of existence (genitals). White women would be WOMEN and black men MEN. We're talking about black and white people, which are in the extreme of the human chain, extreme of the matemathics and physics chain, sprectral color chain. Asians, middle easterners and East asians are another history since many of them are mixes and the East Asian chines -] korean -] Japanese etc are derived of Dravidians, black indians.
What I'm trying to say is, actually white women and black men are THE NATURE'S NATURAL SIMILARITY. Thus, if theres God or not, if this universe is a science based universe or not OR 'probababity' based or not, a fact is evident, IT IS BASED IN SEXUAL GENDERS. IF most living creatures are assexsual or have both genders to procreate and proliferate life as well, that's the fact. If there's a God, it's His. If there's God, there's a Godness and it's her. IF there's or was a colour placed on them, it's BLACK and WHITE. What would be the colour of that suppose Godness? You know the answer. What colour would be from that male God? You know the answer. Who would be the intellectual that create and works who would be the one manipulating hard tasks? You know the answer. E- E+. Negative Positive, Black and white Black hole and Stars, light, white hole. Male and female.
Simple. In relation black men's natural behavior, it ins't exactly what we wished as humans, neither are us nor white people the owners of the truth and creation. We're the creatures not creators. Society also have a strong vibe in people's behavior.
@MeBM You're over exaggerating. In my opinion everyone is equal because everyone is different anyway. Blame the environment and your diet. Also, black women are the hottest women or should I say mixed black women? I just can't get enough of them. I find black women's body more feminine than white women's and white women face/hair more feminine. Are you talking about women really white and really black? So it's all just about the color. Black mixes are even hotter. I guess a bit of mix do not hurt anyone.
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Following your logic about galaxies and life, it also could imply that the black colour is actually the female instead of male, couldn't it? This is just to complex to be summarized in this way. I'm aware that black and white are opposite and that makes sense if everyone loves white, automatically everyone hates blacks.
So what's the big deal? In the picture I can see a white woman with a black man in looks, but mixed. Alright. The girl looks really a woman, the guy a man. But then, is it true in every case? Thus, most what is black and white? It changes depending of the country. I know many mixed blacks who are considered whites in other countries. What is white who is white? I see loads different light skinned where I live. None of them looks like that blond woman in the picture. So what's white? I know blond people who their direct parents are black africans. So who is white? Is there white people with pure looking direct black babies? Seems like it happens only with blacks. Why is it? Is black universe tired to be black and invented white color? See? I could make your answer really a joke because it's to complex to understand.
Barley.
Bring us a documentary, website or picture showing a white couple having perfect black babies
I could bring countless examples, including neirborH. Just a example:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1210632/Me
So what's the universe's mind? Why is it that black people can have perfect white kids, albinos and lighter kids and white europeans can't? Even mixed? Why? Do it imply something about this universe? What's inside a black hole? White hole? Once again, the universe is too complex to understand my friend.
tmalley said,
"they have done many studies on race with children and they are way more likely to pick up a white doll or for boys a white action figure rather than black... For most people white is just flat out prefferred and unfortunately for you being the minority its going to affect your culture in america."
It is amazing how the human mind works and how easily it is molded. The mind is like putty that moves with any hand that nudges it often enough. Children learn by observing. They see the treatment of Whites in society and in the media. Naturally, they will conform to their impressions. If the White person always gets the candy and the Black doesn't, or is seldom seen, which do you think the child would want to be? The child would want to be the candy getter, wouldn't he?
eurika said,
"there's a reason why you black guys don't find black women attractive is because there arent that many just like there isn't many good looking black guys. If you can't land an attractive black woman it puzzles everyone why you would rather find an equally ugly white woman."
"an equally ugly White woman"! It is minds like this that help other minds to think negatively of people. Obese White women are viewed as unattractive because of people who think like that. It is getting to the point that White men are ashamed of them and do not date them as much. That is how prejudices are born. The black men get them because they are White. They see that Whites are glamorized in the media, so they get one. The one who got the fat ones did not think that it would matter.
By the way, the Whites who are putting down the fat White women are only giving men of other races the idea that they should start seeking thinner White women.
It is almost laughable the lengths that people will go to stop others, and at the same time, impressing them to do the opposite of their intentions. The game is crzy. Hasn't anyone ever heard of reverse psychology? Sometimes that backfires, too. If you tell a Black man that fat White women are ugly, and say it long enough, he will begin to believe you and change gears to thin women. Is that right?
Wait Barley, my comment was a response for Levertis. About the extra info, it merely was an observation. The nature is that way, "why it" I've no idea.
Fact, black people have on avarage higher testosterone than any other ethnic. Testosterone also works in the size, breaths size and masculine traits of an individual. So even in a molecular level, blacks were developed to be more masculine.
Let's see the reverse, very rough white men with steroids (forced testosterone). Let's put a black woman near a very tough white man.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GqyFLKc7PIk&context
They are whrestles champions. Go to 3:08 there's a real white man whestler and a black woman interacting. This is similar this picture but a white man and black woman couple.
An Asian living in Londom made a study checking why black women were considered more "unattractive" if other males from other races looked at them. And he says that the black woman have more testosterone (masculine traits) that's the reason.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/science-news/85
But quickly, white men defend black women's.
"Brave belief, but entirely to the contrary of every major study on that matter. Which would be why many studies show that those who come from the most ethnically diverse nations such as the Caucus region, are perceived as the most beautiful.
Nature likes genetic diversity, for this reason mixed race children are generally very good looking, but some Northern village where everyone is pretty closely related isn't. I am as fair as they come, but purely white women are unattractive to me, that's not anti-white racism, just my personal preference. "
"But Dr Kanazawa is correct. As a European male I find Asian females generally very attractive, particularly Indians and close relations. Japanese and Chinese females are less attractive to me , on a par with European females".
In other words, the interaction between humans is more complex but understandable than you think. It's all around an axis and it's about feminility and masculinity. Black women are gorgeous and they think so, because they are because they have high level of testosterone. Not every individual is pretty but plenty are. If black men tomorrow starts to think black women are too masculine and unattractive, other ethnic with less level of testosterone will think differently and will find that difference actually pretty.
In other hand, the asian male, including the DR in the article looks too much small and feminine. That's why his female counterpart is considered attractive (less testosterone than anyone else, too small and suppostly feminine).
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If you did stop to understand what this world is about, you will get in the same conclusion as mine. The universe, independent of what its made and its origins, IS BASED IN SEXUAL GENDERS and scientists should focus their researchs looking at the sky in the same manner.
"Levertis Steele" It depends. My comments and yours are too repetitive...
*sigh* Okay. Once again,
1. Black men like black women. Black men like women for all that matter.
2. In other countries black people live 50%/50% with whites and mix in a dialy bases. For example in my country. This makes no valid argument that black women are less attractive. While there's black men with white women there's white men with black women as well.. People like diversity.
3. In my country Black women are digged like gold to be honest (diversity, they are exotic, mixed, mullatas, but called blacks. The same for exotic white women).
4. *sigh* I'm married with a white woman and I find her hot. She's fascinated with dark skinned people and find me hot. We want our kids to be dark skinned to light skinned but with our features mixed. Ex: blue eyes with dark skin or lighter eyes. Etcetera. Why can't people wish stuffs like that? This is not a crime.
5. Rihanna is a good example of black woman chased by all ethnic groups and she's just a 20% 80% mullata or black woman. I've seen black women 1000% hotter than rihanna.
6. Black men are not the same.
@Levertis Steele If the United States wants to be only white, let them be. Colored people shouldn't pay attention for what the masses wish. But, I'd suggest a "no return" for colored people up there. The problem is you guys end up in a loop. Aliens, Hispanic, mixed, blacks and whites.
Loop Loop: hate love hate love hate love. I see countries as small towns or small clusters. You're stucked in the United States. Leave it or stop complaining is my best guess.
@MeBM said,
"Fact, black people have on avarage higher testosterone than any other ethnic. Testosterone also works in the size, breaths size and masculine traits of an individual. So even in a molecular level, blacks were developed to be more masculine."
I'm not an idiot. I am aware of it. Do you mean it?
near 100% black woman
http://photos.modelmayhem.com/photos/110117/18/4d3
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-mAHFL63f3kM/TjbXs_JcRCI/
http://i1221.photobucket.com/albums/dd461/Dionnew9
http://blacknotwhitedippedinchocolate.wordpress.co
http://jenapincott.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/c49
http://cutezangels.stencil-workshop.com/Pictures/W
http://media.onsugar.com/files/2010/01/04/1/715/71
http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcS1yNORn0y
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_g1_dytS_Se4/TRuemdibyZI/
near 80-70% black woman. mullatas
http://p2.trrsf.com.br/image/get?src=http%3A%2F%2F
http://www.rihanna1.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04
http://wallpaper.celebritypc.com/rihanna/Rihanna_1
near 40-30% black women . mullatas
http://www.aldaniti.net/wingames/apple_br/imagenes
http://www.imotion.com.br/imagens/data/media/18/84
http://images.imagensdeposito.com/fotos/r/rosto_de
http://www.jobmix.com.br/top/fotos/adriana-lima.jp
http://www.celebsplashnews.info/wp-content/gallery
http://www.fwallpaper.net/pics/Celebrities/adriana
http://www.portalpepper.com/images/blog/1238/adria
1% to 30% less, are blacks considered totally white. I'm not an idiot MeBM and I can see the testosterone and color factor in it. In fact, blacks looks and are more masculine by nature.
So are you saying that black bodies in the sky also are masculine? For instance black holes, negative particles and dark matter/void? Might make sense but bring more about it.
@Barley?? I don't know... don't ask me "why it" I've no idea.
But if you do some research about black and white universe or wiki it up you might understand it a bit more. The characteristcs are evident. This 'metamorphose' of humans and their features is exactly what the description of what we understand about black and white is. It goes beyond color and it have nothing to do how blacks are depigmented over time if in cold regions, tropical or mix and get lighter over time. The character also changes. For instance it's not just straight hair due high humidity from tropical and cold areas. A lighter color, narrowed nose and so on. These are the physical characteritcs only.
What isn't redundant is to know that in extreme conditions, humans are adapted to the opposite in a perpendicular line. In any planet where there's cold and hot regions (definitely almost all unless they are binary habitable systems), it will go from pole south to north and the variances from east to west are aditional. They always will be able to find their related opposite (black-white) if moving perpendicularly. Such as in the Earth. The strong characteristic about it is what you are seeing. Blood pressure and other factors are active while your body is over pressure of the light of the sun. This also enables another features such as how the creature will utility their bodies and minds. Hotter places makes your body to be more relaxed due the amount of energy spent (fat) which connects the body to be less hairly and absorbe some proteins without other factors. The same goes for the brain and how it works. Creatures adapted in equatorial and colder regions normally are more active psychologically and physically due many obvious reasons.
@Barley and yes, as the description of what black and white are in the space, humans are directly related to it. (I'm talking about LIGHT and black bodies even in a molecular and spectral level). We've the same features. It goes from a simple beam of light and its temperature 'til how light and energy and dark energy/matter/black holes itself behaves in space. As I said Sr Barley, masculinity and feminility are the only feature evident in nature and cosmos. If there's a thing we could call "God", there's a Godness. If they exist they have genders and are black and white related.
Concluding Sr Barley, that means that creatures black and white are similar to bodies in the sky and its features. Be it a simple been of light with info about temperature, energy itself and dark energy, dark matter, void matter, black holes etc. The characterics is obvious and it inclinate for a factor, it's masculine and feminine as the nature loves to express. If there's a "God", there's a "Godness". Both of them should be related to the same features observables and they are related with the black and white color as well.
@Levertis Steele, Barley,
So levertis I challenge you or any really nerdy individual to dismiss what I said. Bring concise proves for instance, point a black body in the sky which is news compared with black people. Stuffs with high activity or energy tends to expand (explosion) separate. Light itself like to move foward and it have a since of curiosity, creativity. Black bodies are static and of misterious origin. They also tend to attract instead of repulse forming an "union sense". I doubt there's a something unknown about both without beeing able to know looking at either of its forms.
@Ms Mandy said,
"a black woman can go to hell and back with and for a black man, but in the end it does not matter he will lie to keep and have his young white woman and even take on her all white kids. he through me under the bus to the woman. I don't have a ghetto bone in my body, and neither do my children, but that did not matter. He even told my daughter if she was to date or talk to a white guy he would not ever speak to her again. Takes her on trips w/him, envites her to his job banquets....the kicker is he still lives with me. A black woman will never have what she needs dealing with a black man, but those are the only guys that will talk to a black woman so she just can win."
You're miss leading people's character. The vast majority of black men are committed with black women. Black men are not the same I've no clue where you live and what the blacks in that region were thro but it's true. People even thinks that black men don't like other women unless they are blacks or mixed with blacks (also missleading black men like women). Our world is in a process of miscegenation. It have been going on for centuries in some places, half millenium in other (my country), and milleniums in other spots. Black people are miss guided early. If in USA everyone wants to pressure black men to be thug and gangster, so they will. If they all want them to be like Pelé from my country, best soccer ever, so they will. Communist like in Cuba, so they will, Micheal Jackon or Mike Tyson, Nelson mandela or John Jones, so they will.
I don't get the why people comes with their personal problems in Black and white sites and says it all due racism or black men's fault /cause they are dating women.
Barley. This is funny. it reminds me a black family friend of mine. when I see black people having white looking kids straight, I get shocked.
http://www.blackcelebkids.com/wp-content/uploads/2
"http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1210632/Me"
oO sometimes I think that black people are 'Saiyajins' from an old japanese animation called Dragonball Z :P
But look what Tiger did anyway... He just another statistic of what some generalize men do anyway. So whether your relaxed or uptight the more mature outlook is you have to look at people as individuals not racially.
I think that racism persists because it is a natural part of the human psyche. millennia of evolution impounded all men with the instinct to distrust and want to eliminate anyone who is "similar" but different in appearance and/or behavior. It's a survival instinct that has to do with eliminating competition for scarce resources.
We are taught that the natural state of man is to not be racist and that racism is an acquired attribute that comes from evil motivation in those who are less enlightened than some others. I don't think that is true. I think that racism is the natural state and tolerance is the acquired attribute.
It's too much to ask of honest men to expect them not to be wary of people of other races because honest men admit that they are. I'm not even sure that it is desirable to eliminate racism. We tamper with the survival mechanisms of millions of years of evolution at our own peril. It seems to me presumptuous that some think they know better then the wisdom of those years.
A civilized society should expect only tolerance, not acceptance. There is a difference between the two. We don't have to like people of other races, or even "accept" them in any sense, we only need to tolerate them and allow them equal treatment under the law. I think the same is true of abnormal behaviors such as homosexuality.
I think the problems in our society are two.
First we misunderstand racism as not being the natural state of man.
Second we demand acceptance rather than simply tolerance.
I don't think there will every be peace among races until both of these concepts are incorporated into the fabric of our society.
Honestly this depends completely on your surroundings. I live in a very countryside confederate city in Georgia I was raised in the ghettos of Atlanta georgia but I have a white girl friend and my best friend is a redneck and her cousin but I don't discriminate between women but I've notice I favor more white women. Even though I've been with black Hispanics and white and have seen trashy not classy girls. Need I state I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 18. Now ate is not the factor for ive notice the behavior among my family where there is a balance between the races and also mixtures
white women won't get so offended so fast.
Carisolla 2 years ago
Lol, I never knew black men were frighten of their women...